Nolies is 18+ only. Here's exactly how we keep it that way, and how we handle the people who don't play fair.
Every Nolies account requires you to confirm you're 18 or older at signup. Nolies Connect (our dating section) goes further: nobody's profile becomes visible to anyone else until they've passed government-ID and liveness verification through our verification partner, Didit. We never store your ID photo — Didit confirms your identity and age to us, and that's the only thing we keep.
Every message, reel caption, comment, and Connect chat is scanned before and after it's sent, for:
We're honest about what this is: automated pattern-matching that catches a lot, misses some, and occasionally over-flags something harmless. Every flag — automated or user-reported — lands in the same queue a real person reviews. It is not a fully autonomous AI making final calls on your account.
What happens depends on severity, not a fixed script: a first minor slip gets a warning; harassment, scam attempts, or repeated violations get accounts suspended or permanently banned; anything involving a minor gets an immediate, permanent ban of the account and every device linked to it — banning the account alone doesn't stop someone from just signing up again on the same phone, so we check for that. Severe violations are reported to law enforcement.
Nolies is not for anyone under 18 — full stop. Any content that sexualizes, targets, or endangers a minor gets the account and every linked device banned immediately, with evidence preserved (never deleted) for law enforcement, and a mandatory report to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) via their CyberTipline, in addition to removing the content. If you see anything like this, report it immediately through the in-app Report button — it's routed to the top of our review queue — or email safety@nolies.xyz. Don't try to investigate or engage with the account yourself.
We use a small number of named third-party services to run Nolies — Firebase (infrastructure, push notifications, crash reporting), Didit (identity verification for Connect), Google AdMob (ads), and Meta/Facebook (ad performance measurement). Passwords are hashed with bcrypt and never stored in plain text. We do not sell your data. See our Privacy Policy for the full, specific breakdown of what's collected, what's kept, and for how long — including how to request deletion.
If you're struggling, please reach out to someone who can help right now:
Stop responding, don't send anything, and report the account immediately — this is exactly the pattern our scam detection is built to catch. Block them right after reporting.
By itself, not necessarily — but it's the single most common precursor to a romance scam, because it gets the conversation off a platform anyone's monitoring. Be extra cautious if it happens before you've had a real conversation, and never send money or personal financial details to someone you've only spoken to off-platform.
Report it immediately using the Report button, block the sender, and email safety@nolies.xyz. If you're in immediate danger, contact local law enforcement.
No. Blocking is private in both directions — you won't know if someone's blocked you, and they won't know you've blocked them.
Immediately, via the in-app Report button (highest priority in our queue) or safety@nolies.xyz. We report all confirmed CSAM/CSAE to NCMEC's CyberTipline as required by law — you don't need to report separately, but you can also report directly at CyberTipline.org.
Email support@nolies.xyz with your account details and why you believe the action was wrong. We review every appeal.